How I Feed My Family of 4 on $500/Month (Without Eating Ramen Every Night)
Grocery prices are INSANE right now. I know because I cry a little every time I check out.
But I've figured out how to keep our grocery bill around $500/month for a family of four without living on pasta and hot dogs.
Here's how.
The System That Actually Works
1. Meal Plan (But Make It Realistic)
I plan 5 dinners per week. That's it.
Why not 7? Because:
- One night is leftovers
- One night is "fend for yourself" or takeout
- Tacos (ground beef, beans, or chicken)
- Sheet pan dinner (protein + veggies)
- Pasta with sauce
- Slow cooker meal (throw it in, forget about it)
- Stir fry
- Ground beef when it's under $4/lb → freeze in 1lb portions
- Chicken thighs (cheaper than breasts, more flavor)
- Eggs (still the cheapest protein)
- Beans (dried or canned)
- Rotisserie chicken for 2-3 meals
- Bananas
- Carrots
- Potatoes
- Onions
- Frozen vegetables (cheaper and last forever)
- Berries in summer
- Apples in fall
- Citrus in winter
- Rice (buy in bulk)
- Pasta
- Oats
- Flour
- Canned tomatoes
- Peanut butter
- Bread (I freeze extra loaves)
- Pre-made meals
- Single-serve snacks
- Juice boxes (water is free!)
- Brand name anything when generic is fine
- Out of season produce
- Ground beef ($3)
- Tortillas ($2)
- Cheese ($1)
- Toppings we already have
- Pasta ($1)
- Jar of sauce ($2)
- Ground beef ($3)
- Frozen garlic bread ($2)
- Chicken thighs ($4)
- Frozen veggie mix ($2)
- Rice (basically free when buying in bulk)
- Soy sauce ($1)
- Eggs ($3)
- Toast ($1)
- Frozen hash browns ($1)
- Night 1: Chicken with sides
- Night 2: Chicken tacos
- Night 3: Chicken soup with the carcass
- Mix with beans to make it stretch
- One pound makes tacos for 4 AND spaghetti sauce
- Throw everything in a frittata
- Make fried rice
- Add to soup
- Oatmeal (buy the big container, not packets)
- Eggs
- Peanut butter toast
- Yogurt (buy large containers, not individual)
- Leftovers from dinner
- PB&J (still a classic)
- Quesadillas with leftover cheese
- Soup and crackers
- Popcorn (kernels are SO cheap)
- Apples with peanut butter
- Cheese sticks (buy the big bag)
- Homemade muffins or banana bread
- Being flexible (buy what's on sale)
- Cooking from scratch more
- Accepting that some weeks we eat A LOT of beans
- Freezing everything
- Not being ashamed of the cheap options
- A basic plan
- Flexibility
- Willingness to cook simple food
- No shame about buying generic
I plan meals I've made before. No experimental recipes during the week.
My rotation:
Mix and match proteins and veggies based on what's on sale.
2. Shop Your Pantry First
Before making a grocery list, I check what I already have.
I keep clear bins so I can actually SEE what's in there. Game changer.
Found a can of black beans? That's tacos. Found pasta? That's dinner. Found random frozen vegetables? That's a stir fry.
This alone saves me $50-75/month.
3. The One-Store Rule
I used to drive to three different stores to get the best deals.
Then I did the math on gas and my time. Not worth it.
I pick ONE store (I use Aldi, but Walmart or Costco work too) and shop there weekly.
Exception: I buy meat in bulk when it's on sale and freeze it.
What I Actually Buy
Proteins (On Sale Only)
Produce (Strategic Choices)
Always buy:Buy what's in season:
Skip the pre-cut stuff. You're paying for convenience.
Staples
What I DON'T Buy
Weekly Shopping Strategy
Before I Go:
1. Check what's in the pantry 2. Plan 5 meals 3. Make a list (organized by store section) 4. Eat something (never shop hungry!) 5. Set a budget alert on my phoneAt the Store:
1. Stick to the list (mostly) 2. Check unit prices, not package prices 3. Buy meat on sale and freeze 4. Get the "about to expire" markdown items if I can use them that day 5. Skip the middle aisles (that's where the expensive stuff lives)Meal Ideas Under $10
These feed my family of 4:
$6 Taco Night:
$8 Pasta Dinner:
$7 Chicken Stir Fry:
$5 Breakfast for Dinner:
The "Stretch It" Method
I make proteins go further:
1 rotisserie chicken = 3 meals:
1 lb ground beef = 2 meals:
Leftover vegetables:
Nothing goes to waste.
Breakfast & Lunch Hacks
Breakfast:
Lunch:
Kids' snacks:
What About Inflation?
Listen, I'm not going to pretend this is easy. Prices are ROUGH right now.
What's helped me:
Real Talk: It's Not Perfect
Some weeks I go over budget. Some weeks we eat the same thing three times.
Some weeks my kids eat chicken nuggets and I don't feel bad about it.
We're all just trying to feed our families without going broke.
The Bottom Line
You don't need to be a master chef or an extreme couponer.
You just need:
We eat real food. It's not fancy, but it's good, and everyone is fed.
What are your grocery shopping tips? I'm always looking for new ideas!